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This a painful, yet necessary section, called
Signs that we were killing our hair but we ignored
a.k.a. What we don't miss...

~ excerpts from a thread on the nappturality.com archive forum

Ouch! Yuck! Where is my hair?! Huh?
Yuck! Now that's just gross!
  thinking [hair] should only be "washed" only when time to get a touchup
  feeling slimy or mushy [hair] when it's wet...sure sign of being over processed
  not shampooing my hair for as long as possible so that I could keep my permed hair looking "good"
  the smell of burnt hair and chemicals when I got home and realizing the smell was me
 wondering what that substance was oozing out of my scalp right after a relaxer.
  perpetually dirty combs (I don't miss the dirty combs one bit! ~ ini)
  the aroma of freshly "done" hair
  not wanting to wash my hair cause it looked so much better when it was dirty
  that nasty brown color that my hair turned from end to root
  walking around with smokey/grease-smelling hair after a hard press
  having a dirty pillow, head scarf or collar from the grease that was supposed to make my hair grow, but never did
 having hair that smelled like burnt grease for weeks at a time but being scared to wash it
 waking up the morning after I received a relaxer and having my hair clump together. This was from the "juice" that was oozing out of my scabs. EWWWW!
  using tons of gel to slick back hair and make it even straighter
 not washing for 2 weeks to preserve my hairstyle
My experience: I was really bad w/ washing my hair. It just took too much time to get my hair back to "straightness" . I would go months while in highschool and like 3 weeks max by college. I had serious dandruff...which I thought was 'growing dandruff' and I would just make sure the outside of my hair 'looked' clean. Once I started working I went to the stylist every 2 weeks. My hair smelled, but I never realized how much until I wore my hair natural. Now I can smell that smell on other women a mile away: the sweet aroma of sweat and chemicals
Lessons Learned: I've learned that water is not the enemy...it is the friend! I've learned that I can wash my hair every day if I want to. I've learned that sweat and smoke are not good smells on my head...matter-o-fact they are down right nasty. I've learned that other people could smell my nasty hair just like I can smell other womens hair . I've learned that shampooing is not as necessary as I thought because the detergents in shampoo are strong and drying. I've learned that conditioner is more important and it contains detergents gentle enough to clean my hair. I've learned that I don't have 'growing dandruff' or dandruff at all . Lastly I've learned that wisdom really is the principle thing.
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